When you are in a bad marriage or an unhappy one, you?ve got to go an extra mile. If you want things to change for the better, then you exert an effort. But if you?re only waiting for something in you or your partner to change, then don?t expect any changes to occur.
Sometimes, couples wait for changes to occur because they are scared of change. They wait that their partners will change for good and even wait on their own feelings to change. They wait in hope that the marriage fixes itself and becomes better.
Couples seem to forget the fact that unhappiness shows. If you are unhappy, your partner can see it loud and clear. All the more, you are putting your relationship at risk.
So, you should do something to initiate change. Change involves movement. How can things change if you are only there waiting? If you?re waiting for an apple to fall down from a tree without doing anything to make it fall, then it?s going to take forever. Your marriage may even worsen because you only decided to wait.
Communicate with your partner and discuss issues with him/her. Understand both of your needs. Or better yet, you grab his/her hand and go to marriage counseling. You never know. Change can easily be done as long as you?ve the right directions.
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